The single life. Its good when you know your just not ready to commit and settle down. But can be super lonely when your single because your confused with what you wanna do. Yea, I can risk being in a relationship and taking a chance on trusting and getting go know somebody only to hope that who they presented themselves as is the REAL them and that they'd never hurt you intentionally or give up on you. Or I can be single.... Enjoy the feeling of being free literally and emotionally ( and I use that word lightly).
Loving love, and wanting it back from the opposite sex is the problem I have with being single. You won't get it at all in a real sense. Unless you just wanna hear the words with no meaning or a completely different one (friends) lOl. There's nothing like connecting with someone you REALLY like soul wise :) and the goal is to stay happy and spread happiness and love into your relationship. *sigh* On the other hand being single has its ups! Being able to scan the room at cute faces. Having a busy life and not having to check in at the end of the day when your zombified exhausted!
what is love? Is the meaning always the same when its said? Or do some people just really abuse the privilege of the word existing?! You'd think so with all the serious relationships you can look back on and remember what it was like to be under the "love high". Then you realized how drug you were to not see the signs to either prevent you from making that mistake or how reacting different could've made the choice of still being together worth the fight.
Blaaaah in the end, all your doing is settling for what you kinda want.. Sorta. And going with what you really love and know you want. After so many ups and downs you know what's best for you. Sooo are you single or taken and LOVING it? Or just SETTLING? :)
-Inayah :)
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